Saturday, November 29, 2008

Overcome Loneliness - wikiHow

Overcome Loneliness - wikiHow

Above article gives me some ideas to overcome loneliness.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Feel free

One of my friends sent me a blog. I still remembered vividly one of the posts was titled "Enjoy your loneliness". The author mentioned about how she enjoys and overcomes her loneliness. She feels free when she is alone. She does things that she likes when she is alone. She also gets to know herself more when she is alone.

In some ways, the author inspired me. After reading the post, I could feel I am not the only one who experiencing loneliness. There are thousands of people who suffer from loneliness. Therefore, I am learning how to make myself feel better and I am trying to persuade myself that loneliness is not an eerie feeling at all. Twisting the lonely moment into meaningful moment by doing things that I love is what I need to learn and discover.

Another post about my low self-esteem...

The familiar voices flowed from outside of my office. A few colleagues were talking. They sounded to have an interesting topic to discuss. I was thinking of opening the door and joining their conversation. I ended up sitting on my desk to do my work.

I have been working in my former school for 1 year and 11 months. Some of my colleagues are my former teachers. Unfortunately, I still don’t communicate well with them. I am afraid I would utter improper words, I am afraid they don’t understand my speech and etc.

I sometimes think of doing crazy things such as flirt and approach the guy who I like and criticize the persons who I don’t like. Nevertheless, I don’t have the courage to do those things. Another post about my low self-esteem...